The definition extends further. Anyone who shares a child with the accused person qualifies, regardless of marital status or whether they ever lived together. Anyone who has cohabited with the accused within the past 12 months also qualifies, along with any children of either person who live in that shared home.
Assault and battery against a family or household member is charged under Virginia Code Section 18.2-57.2. A first offense is a Class 1 misdemeanor, carrying up to 12 months in jail and a fine of up to $2,500. If the accused has two prior convictions for the same offense, or certain other assault and battery offenses, within the same 20-year period, the charge becomes a Class 6 felony, which carries one to five years in prison.
Strangulation is charged separately and more seriously. Under Virginia Code Section 18.2-51.6, strangulation or suffocation that causes wounding or bodily injury is a Class 6 felony on its own, even for a first offense, regardless of whether the strangulation happened between family or household members.
Violating a Protective Order Is a Separate Crime
Violating any provision of a protective order is its own criminal offense under Virginia Code Section 16.1-253.2, generally a Class 1 misdemeanor. If the violation involves a weapon, or if the person enters the protected party’s home while armed, the charge can rise to a Class 6 felony. A second violation within five years, when either offense involved violence or a threat, carries a mandatory minimum of 60 days in jail.
Child Protective Services May Open a Separate Review
When children are present in a household involved in a domestic violence case, Child Protective Services may open its own review independent of the criminal case. That review runs on its own timeline and can influence custody arrangements, sometimes well before the criminal case is resolved.
Deferred Disposition May Be Available for First Offenses
Virginia law allows some first-time defendants to qualify for a deferred disposition. To be eligible, the defendant generally must have no prior convictions for assault and battery against a family member and must not have previously received a deferral for the same offense. The defendant must consent to the deferral, and the court typically requires completion of evaluation and treatment programs. Successful completion results in dismissal of the charge, while a violation of the conditions can lead to conviction based on the original plea or finding.
Frequently Asked Questions About Virginia Domestic Violence Laws
Can a domestic violence charge be dropped if the alleged victim doesn’t want to press charges?
In Virginia, the prosecutor, not the alleged victim, decides whether to pursue the charge. The alleged victim can decline to cooperate, but if other evidence supports the case, including police observations or medical records, it may still move forward without that person’s participation.
Does a domestic violence conviction affect gun rights in Virginia?
Yes. A domestic violence conviction, even a misdemeanor, can trigger a federal firearm prohibition under federal law. This applies regardless of how minor the underlying offense may have seemed at the time and can affect firearm rights well beyond any state sentence.
Can a protective order affect child custody in Virginia?
A protective order can restrict where the respondent lives, who they can contact, and their access to their children. Family courts in Virginia often consider an active protective order as a factor when making custody and visitation decisions.
How long does a domestic violence charge stay on your record in Virginia?
A conviction generally stays on your record permanently unless you qualify for expungement under Virginia law. Not every domestic violence conviction is eligible for expungement, so reviewing your specific situation with an attorney is an important step.
What happens if someone violates a protective order in Virginia?
Violating a protective order is a separate criminal offense under Virginia Code Section 16.1-253.2, typically a Class 1 misdemeanor, though it can become a felony in certain circumstances involving weapons. Even minor contact, such as a text message, can count as a violation and lead to arrest and new charges.






